This infographic is adapted from Brene Brown's book Daring Greatly, and you might also enjoy her video on empathy.
Here is a transcription:
Daring Greatly
Engaged Feedback Checklist
I know I'm ready to give feedback when:
1. I'm ready to sit next to you rather than across from you.
2. I'm willing to put the problem in front of us rather than between us (or sliding it toward you).
3. I'm ready to listen, ask questions, and accept that I may not fully understand the issue.
4. I want to acknowledge what you do well instead of picking apart your mistakes.
5. I recognize your strengths and how you can use them to address your challenges.
6. I can hold you accountable without shaming or blaming you.
7. I'm willing to own my part.
8. I can genuinely thank you for your efforts rather than criticize you for your failings.
9. I can talk about how resolving these challenges will lead to your growth and opportunity.
10. I can model the vulnerability and openness that I expect to see from you.
from Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.
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